Personal Growth

Years ago, I had a client who struggled with an all-too-common problem: she couldn’t say no.She was a successful professional, respected in her field, but when it came to setting boundaries, she folded like a cheap card table. People constantly

What if the secret to changing your life was as simple as asking yourself better questions?The questions people ask themselves every day shape their reality. Most people don’t realize it, but the mind is always answering questions, whether those questions

Where do you get your furnishings?I love good fiction, including the works of modern authors, as well as stories from long ago.I’m a big fan of original writers, like James Lee Burke, Roald Dahl, and John Fowles, among others, and

There’s only one way to preserve your memories…Memory fascinates me.For many of us, it defines who we are—our mental history forming the backbone of our identity. But if you woke up one morning with no memories at all, would you

Some people seem to specialize in ineffective communication…About ten years ago, I was the communications expert on CBC Television’s Steven and Chris show. I held that position for two seasons, until one of the hosts tragically passed away. During that

The wrong place at the wrong time…Today is a very sad day for my wife and me, and I had no plan whatsoever to write this.The topic I’d originally chosen was quite different, but as I began writing, I felt

You don’t need motivation…nobody does.A lot of people’s complaints are universal. Why? Because we share so much with the rest of humanity.One of my brothers-in-law worked for the United Nations in Geneva and traveled the globe on their behalf. Wherever

Repetition is the mother of skill…When I was a rebellious teenager surrounded by a tribe of fellow pseudo-intellectuals, we measured our worth by the depth of our knowledge—especially when it came to music. That was our domain, our badge of

It’s freezing here in the Great White North, but I don’t mind.Why? Because Canada is the undisputed world leader in dealing with cold weather.Here, we’ve mastered the art of winter survival: double or triple-glazed windows, roaring fireplaces, electric heaters, snow

Cross-species communication fascinates me…Many of you know I’m an animal lover, especially when it comes to bull terriers, possums, crows, ravens, and most of all, cats. It amazes me how capable animals are of communicating with humans—often in ways that